The Great Porn Addiction: How An Over Sexualized Culture Is Warping Our Minds

Many articles written about this topic, in my opinion, use too much humor to bring its point across. Viewing pornographic material too regularly warps your mind and real world expectation of women, with so many graphic and novel situations (most of which will never happen on reality) just a click away; the bar both inside and outside the bedroom has been moved higher than ever before. Have you ever judged a women too harshly based on her outward appearance? “Oh, her breasts are too small.” or “I prefer my women with a big, round butt.”, these are common enough in the men that don’t regularly view pornography, everybody has certain things that they like; this is completely normal. The problem comes when you’re viewing pornography multiple times a day for an extended amount of time (while masturbating or not) and instead of going over to talk to that cute girl (by realistic standards, not the porn star XXL everything body), you instead become passive and make excuses as to why she doesn’t suit your (now) non-superimposable tastes.

The mind begins to objectify women; they stop being people with personalities, dreams, ambitions, backgrounds, struggles, hopes and dreams Shibuya Kaho . They simply become pieces of meat. While this is a very harsh thing to say, that is the truth of the matter. Your mind becomes accustomed to whatever you constantly expose it to; thus if you regularly expose it to lewd material that rewards you(by orgasm) for watching women being treated this way, it eventually learns that this is the way things are meant to be. A relationship in itself is meant to be built on love, trust and mutual respect. Pornography is anything but that: endless numbers of women are photographed and recorded doing the most sexually deviant things imaginable as well appearing to be grateful for these things being done to them. There is a growing number of men who expect to do these things to the women they’re involved with in the early stages of the relationship, perhaps after the first few dates. This is should shock you for the sole reason that it just isn’t right! Learning the other person’s likes and dislikes are part of a healthy sexual relationship but the disconnect comes in when people start to force their own (perhaps non mainstream sexual preferences) onto their partners with no regard to how the other person feels.

If you’re visiting these sites at work or at school, you should begin to notice that you may make small and sometimes frequent mistakes because it takes your focus away. Underestimating the power of sex and all its branches (image, video, voice) is a recipe for disaster for the man with a faltering constitution. If you’re lucky enough to have children one day, think about how you would feel if your daughter were treated like the women in those videos. Is it worth giving your mind to lust when you know what effect it is having on you?

Before I was able to secure funding to write, produce, and direct indie feature films I started in reality programming. I created the America’s Wildest Bachelor Parties (AWBP) reality series. I enjoyed distribution success with it and was able to launch Slice of Americana Films. I consider myself a passionate screenwriter, producer, and director. But I also like to create fun and sexy entertainment.

I have been working with the same editor, Tim Beachum aka The SEO Bully, for close to 7 years. In that time he and I both get approached from time to time by friends or friends of friends outside of the entertainment industry that want to get into the porn industry. The pitch usually is the same. They have access to hot looking talent, a sweet location, and money to budget the shoot.

I was in Virginia Beach at a bar with Tim we were having a few brews when the waitress kept looking at me kind of funny. A couple of rounds later she asked me, “If I was really a porn producer from California?” Tim started laughing. He knows I do not dig it when people get the wrong information. That is why he kept laughing.

I asked where she heard that, the owner of the place showed her trailers for America’s Wildest Bachelor Parties and Fantasy Striptease Private Shows I had produced. She had won a battle of the g-string contest on the beach recently and thought there was more money in adult entertainment. She got $500 for winning the contest and showing her entire self to a rowdy crowd.

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